I shared a cute and funny TikTok video with my cousins. TikTok if you don’t know is an app of short video clips. Some funny, political, tips and tricks for cleaning, how to maximize utilization of your iPhone and much more.
My cousin was adamant he would never use TikTok because it was violent and had nudity.
I was shocked. I was watching silly videos of cats with cucumber slices on his eyes like he was at a spa. I have spent a few hours on the app and never came across anything remotely violent or naked.
But it reminded me how we can all go somewhere and experience the same thing completely different.
I was in Kansas City recently when I got a chance to do a little shopping at the mall.
I wore jeans and a t shirt and had a huge smile on my face just enjoying the day.
A black man looked at me with hurt and anger in his face as if I had told him off. I couldn’t figure out why.
I looked down and saw my shirt. It had the words Cash Hank Merle and Waylon on it. And I wondered did he see hate?
To me Johnny Cash overcame pain loss and drug addiction and Merle went to prison. I love music and all the stories that go with it - southern rock, rap music, christian and gospel, blues and rock.
I teach my daughter about Robert Johnson and Blind Lemon Jefferson, old blues musicians. I read stories to her like the one about Ruby Bridges, a black girl trying to go to an all white school who had to have U.S. Marshalls escort her daily.
But he doesn’t know my life experiences. He doesn’t know I have black friends, had a black female roommate where I learned about ashy skin and nappy kitchens (the hair at the nape of the neck).
All he saw was a shirt. He saw confederate flags. He saw a white racist.
Maybe he judged me the way he didn’t want to be judged. Did he see hate where there was none?
Maybe but I don’t know his story either.
I am struggling in our world today with the awakenings and the equality that doesn’t feel very equal.
In the Bible there is a story of a man that was forgiven a debt he couldn’t pay. He walked away and instead of being filled with grace and joy, he threatened someone who owed him money. He didn’t learn the lesson.
How many times do we judge exactly what we are forgiven for?
How easy it is to judge or put up a wall around ourselves and how much courage it takes to be vulnerable.
I saw a video where Denzel Washington said we get things done by talking to each other. We have to engage. You can’t legislate love.
Maybe it’s time we all put our swords down and truly get to know one another.
We might be more alike than you think.
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